Memorials may be given to American Lung Association, St. Charles City Parks and Recreation, or St. Vincent DePaul Society. Wife of the late Ben Rufkahr; loving mother of Pam Coldewe (David), Lynn Smallwood, Jane Bell, Mary Rufkahr, Ben Rufkahr (Sandy), and Ted Rufkahr (Dina); dear sister of Bud (Fran), Bill (Pat), Joe (Ruth), and Dick (Maybelle) Schultehenrich, Helen Disher (and the late Bob), Pat Bain (Ray), and the late Mary Ann Lewis (husband, Bob is surviving), grandmother of 8, great-grandmother of 1.