Memorial contributions may be made to Masses or SSM Hospice. James E. 'Jim' Gilder, St. Charles, MO, June 22, 2002 age 66. Dear husband of Marge Gilder; dear father of Mike Gilder (Robin), Cathy Kampmann (Richard); dear brother of Carol Phillips, Connie King (Gene), Sister Joy Elaine Gilder CSJ; dear brother-in-law to Grace and Ron Albietz, Anna Lee Blechle and the late Phil Phillips; dear grandfather of Joe, Tiffany, Amy, Nicole, Jenni-fer; dear uncle, cousin and friend. Mr. Gilder was owner of the Big Bend Mobil Service Station in Webster Groves for 44 years. He served in the U.S.Air Force from March 1951 to August 1952.