Kilker, Janet "Jay" DeBlaze, of Lake St. Louis, Missouri, died on Thursday, May 27, 2010 at the age of 44. Loving wife of Thomas Kilker; beloved daughter of Vincent F. Sr. and Mary Janet DeBlaze; dear daughter-in-law of Rita Kilker; dear sister of Vincent (Lucia) DeBlaze, Sue (Terry) Elsenrath, Jeffrey DeBlaze, Michael DeBlaze and Mary DeBlaze; cherished aunt of Cory, Cody, Matthew and Erik Elsenrath; Alex DeBlaze; Chrissy and Reed Kilker; Christopher and Katie Mannen; dear sister-in-law of Ted (Melanie) Kilker and Kim (John) Marren. Jay is survived by cousins, uncles, aunts and many friends. Jay will be missed dearly by her and Tom’s beloved pet, Tally. She is preceded in death by Frank and Dorothy DeBlaze, grandparents; Ed and Winifred Davidson, grandparents; aunts and cousins.