Abeling, Jeanette, of St. Charles, Missouri, died on Monday, May 14, 2012 at the age of 90. Loving wife of the late Harland F. Abeling; beloved daughter of the late Linus and Matilda Heinsz; devoted mother of Alan (Rita) Abeling, Mary (Tom) Thoele, Pat (Jack) Witte, Nancy (Donny DuBois) Malin and the late Daniel Abeling; dear mother-in-law of Barbra Abeling; cherished grandmother of Shawn (Cary) Abeling, Matt Abeling, Brooke (Adam) Davis, John (Anne) Witte, Eric (Katie) Thoele, Brandis (John) Genenbacher, Jeff Thoele, Lauren (Derek) Lowe, Lisa Witte, Nikki Malin and Shelby Malin; treasured great-grandmother of 9. She is preceded in death by her siblings Vernon Heinsz, Gerald Heinsz, Milton Heinsz, Robert Heinsz, Wilburn Heinsz and Alice Marheineke. She was a member of St. Peter Ladies Sodality and The Missouri Extension Club. Jeanette loved playing cards with friends and family. She was a lifetime homemaker and loved caring for her family and friends. She was greatly loved and left footprints on the hearts of many. Memorials may be made to Holy Angels Shelter (Emergency Homeless Shelter for Women and Children) 1410 N. 37th Street, East St. Louis, IL. 62204 or Duchesne High School.