Memorials may be made to Catholic Charities. Mary J. Whetsel, of Wentzville, Missouri, died on Saturday, October 10, 2009, at the age of 76. Dearest wife of the late Edward Whetsel; dear daughter of the late Lawrence H. Toal and the late Grace Toal; loving mother of John C. (Amy) Whetsel, Lynda M. (Mike Hayduk) Whetsel, Steven G. (Judy) Whetsel, and Joseph M. (Jessica Brooks) Whetsel; treasured grandmother of 5 and great-grandmother of 5; dear sister of Glenda A. Bolin; She is preceded in death by her brother, Lawrence W. Toal.