Memorials may be made to Our Savior Lutheran Church – Mission Work. Haehling, Pamela D. (nee: Query), of St. Charles, Missouri, Asleep in Jesus, Tuesday, March 3, 2009 at the age of 62. Daughter of the late Lester and Nedra Wolf Query; wife and best friend of Hubert A. Haehling. Mother of Lance (Rina) Culli and Heather Culli (Keith) Kinsey. Sister of Lance (Luche) Query. Grandmother of Jennifer, Garrett, Kaitlin and Alexis. Pamela was a 1964 graduate of Normandy High School and a 1966 graduate of St. Luke's Hospital School of Nursing. After serving as an Operating R.N., she was the owner of a wall papering hanging business and most recently became an awarded real estate agent with Caldwell Banker Gundaker. She was an active member of Our Savior Lutheran Church, St. Charles, a member of several bridge clubs and a beloved friend to many..