Memorials may be given to American Cancer Society at any of the Baue Funeral Home locations. LAY, Robert 'Bob' J., St. John, MO, October 30, 2003 age 80. Dear son of the late Arlie and Myrtle Lay; dear father of Sandy Patzner and Rob Lay (Suzanne); grandfather of Jake Patzner, Paige Goettsch, and McKenzie Lay; brother of Rosie Clark and Peggy Schramm. Survived by former wife and friend, Marilyn Lay . He was a loved uncle and friend to many. He was an Army veteran of World War II.