Engelmeyer, Tomi, of St. Charles, Missouri, died on Friday, April 20, 2012. Loving wife of Ray Engelmeyer; dear daughter of the late Seiji and Kame Nakanishi, Dearest sister of Sunnei, Mio, Yoshiko, Chiyo and Seisho Nakanishi; dear daughter-in-law of William F. and the late Pauline Engelmeyer; dear sister-in-law of Don (Maureen), Gerry (Sharon), Paul (Mary) and Stephen (Eileen) Engelmeyer, Clare (Geoffrey) Plott, Barbara (Mark) Ryan, Mary (Scott) Befort and Joan (Steven Irish) Engelmeyer. Tomi was a loving aunt and great-aunt to many nieces and nephews, and they will miss her greatly. Tomi was a friend to everyone she met. She is preceded in death by one sister and one brother-in-law, Bill Engelmeyer. Tomi enjoyed gardening, fishing, horse racing, was a wonderful cook and loved her pups, Mitch, Sony, Suzi and Peko. Memorials may be made to the American Cancer Society.