Memorial contributions may be made to the American Diabetes Association, the American Cancer Society or SSM Hospice. Dearest wife of the late Roger Clark Gillham; beloved daughter of the late Philip and Susie Victoria (nee: Hill) Thomure; loving mother of Gary Gillham (Karen), Karen Daniel (Reggie) and the late Marlene Wellinghoff; dear mother-in-law of Gene Wellinghoff; cherished grandmother of Jennifer Frank (Jason), Laura Wellinghoff, Jeffrey Gillham (Nicole), David Gillham (Jami), Elisabeth Gillham and great grandmother of Cayden Gillham, Mackenzie Gillham and Hannah Frank; dear sister of the late Nellie Hunt, Russell Meyer and Marvin Meyer; our dear aunt and sister-in-law; dear friend to many. Mrs. Gillham was an avid card player and world traveler. She was a member of First United Methodist Church in St. Charles.