GOWER, Virginia, O'Fallon, Missouri, died Thursday, December 20, 2007 at the age of 51. Dear daughter of Lee Roy Winder and Susan J. Lack; dearest mother of Jesse Gower; dear sister of Robbin (Bob) Martin, Pamela Kay (Bobby) Phillips, Lori (Kevin) Townsend, Michelle (Jack) Elder, Tracy Clark and Jimmy (Donna) Winder. Family and Friends are invited to a reception at Grants Shelter following the burial services at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery.