In lieu of flowers memorials may be given to United methodist Church of the Shepherd Building Fund or American Red Cross. RELFORD, Wilma Long, St. Charles, MO, formerly Roanoke Virginia, September 25, 2002 age 83. Dear wife of the late Elias Woodrow Relford; dear mother of Beverly, Lynda and Randall H. Relford (Barbara); dear grandmother of 5 grandsons, 7 great-grandsons and 2 great-great-granddaughters.