With cremation services in Saint Charles, MO. becoming a more common choice, more people are considering this option for themselves or a family member. One question we are often asked is if the family can witness the cremation. While some families may have no desire to view the cremation, for those who do are in fact, able to do so. 

If you are considering viewing a cremation, it is important that you are aware of the process and know what to expect beforehand. This can help you get through the process a little easier as you will feel more comfortable with what is taking place. 

The Viewing Area 

The first thing to know is that there is a designated viewing area. This space is typically decorated and made to feel very comfortable for the witnesses of the cremation. This viewing area will have a pane of glass separating this space from the actual cremation area. 

Cremation Process 

Once the family has been led inside the viewing area and are settled, the cremation will begin. This starts with the casket being loaded into the cremation retort. This retort is the chamber that heats up and where the act of cremation takes place. Once the body is placed in the chamber, the chamber is door is then closed and sealed. 

With the chamber sealed, the cremation will begin. Witnesses will not see anything else as the chamber is sealed. And since the creation can take hours to complete, witnesses will not stay for the entire process. Most often, once the cremation has started the family will have a few minutes to reflect and be with one another before being led out but a funeral director. 

Once the cremation process has been completed, the family will receive their loved one’s cremains. While some cremains may be given to the family the same day, typically it takes a few days before they are given. They are also normally given to the family in a temporary urn. If the family purchased an urn prior, then that urn can be used. 

Should You Witness a Cremation? 

Deciding if you should witness your loved one’s cremation is a very personal choice. While some people many find it morbid or too difficult to view, others may find it provides the closure they need to begin to heal. 

If you are unsure, talk with your family as well as the funeral or cremation director. Make sure you know their process and everything that is included. This will ensure you make an informed decision and will know exactly what to expect should you decide to witness the act. 

Final Thoughts 

Saying goodbye to your loved one is never easy. And there is no right or wrong to do so as it is different for everyone. As providers of cremation services in Saint Charles, MO, we understand how difficult this decision can be. We are here to answer all of your questions and address any concerns you may have about this process.